"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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beyondwtf

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Hey. I'm not sure if I chose the right subject but I need a little advice.

I'm a student recently graduated from High School and I'm right now in abroad studying the local language.

Everyday I see tons of beautiful girls and I feel like... wow. I do feel confident and I do feel like I'm totally able to pull this off. I can talk to strangers.. no problem. I can ask for directions and stuff. But mostly when I really need it. I've never appraoched someone beacuse of interest or attraction.

But the problem is... maybe an excuse. Is that my ability to speak the local language is not good and I don't know if I should use english... beacuse I do look like a local.

Maybe you guys can give a little advice on how to appraoch people with my little language barrier problem?

Thanks!

oh btw.
Guys... I need your help.

I'm about to meet a girl in real life I met online, beacuse... well. I cannot properly meet people properly on the streets beacuse of language barrier, but the girl I'm about to meet can speak english.

Any recommendation?
What should I do to get her? Beacuse she is quite good looking.

I;ve read a lot of this PUA stuff and its all over my head. I think I can do it. the push-pull thing. Dis-interest thing... but idk.

Can someone explain in detail how do you get a girl attracted to you if you are not the BEST looking guy out there? I'm like a little average looking I think haha

I dont want to be a one of those guys, I want to be the guy!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bookman

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it would have helped more if you mentioned where are you, maybe there are some locals of that country on this forum that can give you some insights. English is spoken all over the world, how much of a barrier could it be?
 
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