Walden
Master Don Juan
That'd be a great idea an i'd like to amplify it, it's be awesome to divide the DJ discussion forum into a newbie forum and an experienced DJ forum.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Newbie vs senior DJ forums.
- Thread starter Walden
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
squirrels
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And who judges experience? 
The advanced forum would be full of people who never go out and always post on the forum....
If I had to suggest an idea, it would be to revamp the registration process in so that one cannot post on the forums until they collected cookies, or something, earned by hitting the page of each article in the bible.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Newbies often acknowledge that they're new when theyre asking some questions "I'm new to Djing and I want to know wether I should ask this girl out....." whereas you wouldn't need a license to post on the senior DJ forum , you'd just feel awful silly posting something and having it get moved to the newbie section.
You shouldn't need this place to tell you how good yr DJing is at the moment.