Walden
Master Don Juan
That'd be a great idea an i'd like to amplify it, it's be awesome to divide the DJ discussion forum into a newbie forum and an experienced DJ forum.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Newbie vs senior DJ forums.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
squirrels
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And who judges experience? 
The advanced forum would be full of people who never go out and always post on the forum....
If I had to suggest an idea, it would be to revamp the registration process in so that one cannot post on the forums until they collected cookies, or something, earned by hitting the page of each article in the bible.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Newbies often acknowledge that they're new when theyre asking some questions "I'm new to Djing and I want to know wether I should ask this girl out....." whereas you wouldn't need a license to post on the senior DJ forum , you'd just feel awful silly posting something and having it get moved to the newbie section.
You shouldn't need this place to tell you how good yr DJing is at the moment.