"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Newbie vs senior DJ forums.

Walden

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That'd be a great idea an i'd like to amplify it, it's be awesome to divide the DJ discussion forum into a newbie forum and an experienced DJ forum.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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coldcoal

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
You must be labeled as "Senior Don Juan" to have access to the advanced forum.
The advanced forum would be full of people who never go out and always post on the forum....

If I had to suggest an idea, it would be to revamp the registration process in so that one cannot post on the forums until they collected cookies, or something, earned by hitting the page of each article in the bible.
 

Walden

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And who judges experience?

Newbies often acknowledge that they're new when theyre asking some questions "I'm new to Djing and I want to know wether I should ask this girl out....." whereas you wouldn't need a license to post on the senior DJ forum , you'd just feel awful silly posting something and having it get moved to the newbie section.

You shouldn't need this place to tell you how good yr DJing is at the moment.
 
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