Newbie not getting screwbie’d

[Darwinious]

Ok so I’m on a break from my missus and, whilst on this break I’ve just discovered all this stuff and how plugged into the female matrix I have been all my life. She has withheld sex for months, says she’s gone off it and is now deciding whether or not she wants us to be together.
I have learned that I was complicit in this because I lost my masculinity and became a needy beta years ago, basically asking nicely if perhaps we could have sex later if it’s not too much trouble etc...

Now I’m armed with this knowledge I’m at ease with whatever she wants because if I do go back it’ll be on my terms or I’m off to get a place of my own and she can stick it up her (sizeable) ass. Her loss, definitely not mine!

I’m not worried about her for the moment, not even bothering to text her now, just focused and working on myself.

My request is really for advice at this stage, given how new to all this I am.

Many thanks.

 

[Glassguy]

She has withheld sex for months, says she’s gone off it and is now deciding whether or not she wants us to be together

Easy answer-

Step 1: Tell her that "you will make her mind up for her and you are going to go a different direction and start seeing other people. No discussion, you have made your mind up. Do not contact me because I am not going to respond back".

Step 2: Go hit up new chicks and start dating ASAP. And dont respond back to the bytch.

Step 3: Never take that bytch back.

There is probably another guy banging her. As a friend of mine says "Unless she is a vegetarian lesbian, she is getting her meat somewhere".

Hope this helps.

 

[Alvafe]

Easy answer-

Step 1: Tell her that "you will make her mind up for her and you are going to go a different direction and start seeing other people. No discussion, you have made your mind up. Do not contact me because I am not going to respond back".

Step 2: Go hit up new chicks and start dating ASAP. And dont respond back to the bytch.

Step 3: Never take that bytch back.

There is probably another guy banging her. As a friend of mine says "Unless she is a vegetarian lesbian, she is getting her meat somewhere".

Hope this helps.

I would skip your first step on his case, she already did this, he only didn't notice.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

yeah, get new women in the mix asap, it's amazing how your views change when you have other options and can focus you're attention elsewhere without having to feel lonely. Spin other plates up, it takes a bit of time but once you get them going you're not at the mercy of one girls whims and mood swings and you're a lot happier

 

[John9999]

Gone off sex ??? No, she’s gone off sex with you. Sorry to have to point that out. This was the deal at end of my marriage. Sex was a bargaining chip. Run away. Find other women. Do not let this one leave you hanging while she decides if you’ll be a couple. Take back your power.

 

[The Duke]

Kiss it good bye, do your own thing, go enjoy life with new women! It will be best for your improvement and mental health.

 

[Darwinious]

Thanks for the advice, I’ve already taken it

 

[bat soup]

Ok so I’m on a break from my missus and, whilst on this break I’ve just discovered all this stuff and how plugged into the female matrix I have been all my life. She has withheld sex for months, says she’s gone off it and is now deciding whether or not she wants us to be together.
I have learned that I was complicit in this because I lost my masculinity and became a needy beta years ago, basically asking nicely if perhaps we could have sex later if it’s not too much trouble etc...

Now I’m armed with this knowledge I’m at ease with whatever she wants because if I do go back it’ll be on my terms or I’m off to get a place of my own and she can stick it up her (sizeable) ass. Her loss, definitely not mine!

I’m not worried about her for the moment, not even bothering to text her now, just focused and working on myself.

My request is really for advice at this stage, given how new to all this I am.

Many thanks.

If doesn't want to have sex with you then kick her out and divorce her. Why would anyone ever put up with that? You got friendzoned by your wife.