"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Newbie here, please help

MacdaddyJr

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I am 5'10- 165

I want to cut up

I am confused by this:
Carbs: 1-1.2g / # body weight
Protein: 2g./ # body weight

Do you multiply carbs times bodyweight
or do you divide it

With protein do you divide by two or multiply
I know these are silly questions so thanx.

Also, for the part about calories. should I start at 2500 and then cut down 200 more every week till about 1600. How long should I be cutting up. If I do everything right.

thanx for any help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chewy Bagel

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You multiply the carbs and protein by your bodyweight (E.G. 2g protein x 150lbs (bodyweight) = 300g protein/day)



"Also, for the part about calories. should I start at 2500 and then cut down 200 more every week till about 1600. How long should I be cutting up. If I do everything right."


Yes, start high on the calories, then cut down to 1600 calories. The time it takes you to lose weight depends on how dedicated you are to the diet and exercise - no one can give you an exact time. Just keeps doing it until you like what you see in the mirror.
 

DarkfalconIV

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5'9 and 170 and you can see my ribs. Of course mines muscle but unless yours is all fat you really shoudn't worry about diet more about definition.

My opinion
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Templeton

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Tell me Falcon, do you actually work at posting stuff that makes no sense or is it a natural talent? Either way you seem amazingly adept at it. I implore you to keep your crap for the other forums and stay out of this one. It is genuinely painful trying to weed out your "contributions".
 
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