"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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new years eve party

Someone Much cooler

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I wanna go out for new years eve. I was thining about going somewhere in manhattan with my girl and a few friends. I'm from philly so I dont know NYC that well. Does anyone have any suggestions? I'm looking to go somewhere upscale and classy, some place nice but not insanly expensive. I was thinking a hotel party or maybe a nice club or someothig. Also does any one have any recommendations as to what i should wear for such an event? I usually wear alot of shirts from express, what do yall think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Someone Much cooler

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no feed back?

Does anyone know where there are might good parties at? Maybe a hotel or club or any recommendation would be good. I want something upscale and classy it dont have to be something extravagant but nice.
 

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at least you have a girl for New Years, to me its always an extremely depressing night to be single
 

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good your from NYC help me find something. Use your resources and help me find something fun. There will be plenty of girls at New years eve parties and walking arund manhattan...it will be paradise
 

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"The Saloon" is hands down the best club in the city in my opinion. There is also a club/bar place called "Porkys" which was always one of my favs
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IMO, apartment parties are where it's at in NYC. I felt like a king last year. The clock barely struck 12 before I was hooking up.
 

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Yea but if only we were all so fortunate to know someone who's throwing an apartment party in NYC
 

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I'm also looking for a mixed crowd with differant music types. You see my GF is Puerto Rican and im Trinidadian so she likes spansih music (reggaeton and R&B) and i like Soca/clypso and Rap to dance to.
Yeah an apartment party sounds great but i dont really know anyone in NYC like that. Come on New yorkers show me what yall's city got lemme see something. =)
 

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Don't you have friends to party with? or friends that know of partys?
 

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i'll be visiting nyc for new years too from the 30th to the 2nd.

www.clubzone.com has info on clubs in every city but i would rather hear from people in ny which are the best places to go too? im looking for mostly hip hop music clubs in manhattan. someone has to know or atleast give advice on what else to do in nyc besides sight seeing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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where to go.

i'm from ny and agree apartment parties are better (as i'm throwing one).

http://www.newyears.com/?partyType=$100%20and%20Under&stateList=32

this has a list of lots of the bars having parties. try to avoid the super cheap ones because those are mega-crowded and you can't do anything much besides rubbing up against other dudes.

cheers and happy new years
 

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I.A.F.Y.B.-guess you cant read so good. I dont know shyt in NYC im from North Philly(pennsylvania)

crazymedstudent thanks for the advice ill check that site out. Is your party an open party or just for people you know?

actionjaxson good idea.
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
I.A.F.Y.B.-guess you cant read so good. I dont know shyt in NYC im from North Philly(pennsylvania)
I work in West Philly. I was also contemplating the trek up to NYC. I'm looking into the scene myself. If you find anything decent, PM me.
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
I.A.F.Y.B.-guess you cant read so good. I dont know shyt in NYC im from North Philly(pennsylvania)

crazymedstudent thanks for the advice ill check that site out. Is your party an open party or just for people you know?

actionjaxson good idea.
no problem. the party is just for people I know. if it was another random night then I would maybe help out my fellow DJs but I regulate my own place.

good luck mate.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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