"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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new years eve party

Someone Much cooler

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I wanna go out for new years eve. I was thining about going somewhere in manhattan with my girl and a few friends. I'm from philly so I dont know NYC that well. Does anyone have any suggestions? I'm looking to go somewhere upscale and classy, some place nice but not insanly expensive. I was thinking a hotel party or maybe a nice club or someothig. Also does any one have any recommendations as to what i should wear for such an event? I usually wear alot of shirts from express, what do yall think.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Someone Much cooler

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no feed back?

Does anyone know where there are might good parties at? Maybe a hotel or club or any recommendation would be good. I want something upscale and classy it dont have to be something extravagant but nice.
 

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at least you have a girl for New Years, to me its always an extremely depressing night to be single
 

Someone Much cooler

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good your from NYC help me find something. Use your resources and help me find something fun. There will be plenty of girls at New years eve parties and walking arund manhattan...it will be paradise
 

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"The Saloon" is hands down the best club in the city in my opinion. There is also a club/bar place called "Porkys" which was always one of my favs
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IMO, apartment parties are where it's at in NYC. I felt like a king last year. The clock barely struck 12 before I was hooking up.
 

Smartone84

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Yea but if only we were all so fortunate to know someone who's throwing an apartment party in NYC
 

Someone Much cooler

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I'm also looking for a mixed crowd with differant music types. You see my GF is Puerto Rican and im Trinidadian so she likes spansih music (reggaeton and R&B) and i like Soca/clypso and Rap to dance to.
Yeah an apartment party sounds great but i dont really know anyone in NYC like that. Come on New yorkers show me what yall's city got lemme see something. =)
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Don't you have friends to party with? or friends that know of partys?
 

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i'll be visiting nyc for new years too from the 30th to the 2nd.

www.clubzone.com has info on clubs in every city but i would rather hear from people in ny which are the best places to go too? im looking for mostly hip hop music clubs in manhattan. someone has to know or atleast give advice on what else to do in nyc besides sight seeing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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where to go.

i'm from ny and agree apartment parties are better (as i'm throwing one).

http://www.newyears.com/?partyType=$100%20and%20Under&stateList=32

this has a list of lots of the bars having parties. try to avoid the super cheap ones because those are mega-crowded and you can't do anything much besides rubbing up against other dudes.

cheers and happy new years
 

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I.A.F.Y.B.-guess you cant read so good. I dont know shyt in NYC im from North Philly(pennsylvania)

crazymedstudent thanks for the advice ill check that site out. Is your party an open party or just for people you know?

actionjaxson good idea.
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
I.A.F.Y.B.-guess you cant read so good. I dont know shyt in NYC im from North Philly(pennsylvania)
I work in West Philly. I was also contemplating the trek up to NYC. I'm looking into the scene myself. If you find anything decent, PM me.
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
I.A.F.Y.B.-guess you cant read so good. I dont know shyt in NYC im from North Philly(pennsylvania)

crazymedstudent thanks for the advice ill check that site out. Is your party an open party or just for people you know?

actionjaxson good idea.
no problem. the party is just for people I know. if it was another random night then I would maybe help out my fellow DJs but I regulate my own place.

good luck mate.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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