"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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New Year's Day Problem

wutang180

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hey guys. I came back home to miami from graduate school. I'm currently on my break. I've been going out almost everyday.

Recently on one of my outings, I've met these two girls at a local restuarant. I went up to both of them, talked for about 40 minutes, got their number and invited them out for New Years. However, at that time, i didn't have an exact plan for New Years. I called both of them on friday and told them that we were going to celebrate New Year's at my friend's house on saturday. They were really excited.

Here is the problem (don't laugh). I live only 10 minutes away from where the new year's party is going to be and these girls live about an hour a way (2 hours to get pick them up and to go to the party) . I really hate driving!!! I will probably have to borrow my brother's car to pick them up. I would rather have them drive and meet me at my friend's house instead of me driving that hour. What do yall think? Should I ask them to drive up to miami or should i just drive these girls myself since it is New Year's Eve.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dante1a

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Have them drive, man. Tell them you can't come before because you have to (insert cool activity here).

If you pick them up, it will seem like you REALLY WANT them to come, i.e. dependant on them for something. Remember, your New Years in going to be great with or without them. They are coming because their New Years will be nothing without the time you show them.

Also, make sure this party kicks a**. :)
 

wutang180

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thanks for the advice. I definitely will have them drive.
 

Tear Gas

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Yeah definately make them drive here. It makes you look desperate if you pick them up. Dante knows what hes talking about.
 
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