New Years is Upon Us. One of the easiest times to hook up with the girls is from 10pm-4am on Dec 31. So I want you to go out and have a good time, and meet some fun cute girls. Just be friendly, drink, be sociable and tell her that you think she is fun. And when the clock goes off, I want you to pull her close, look her in the eyes, and say "This one is for you" as your lips lock together.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
New Years Challenge:
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- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Hell f*cking yeah! I'll be on las vegas blvd south come 2007's coming in and I'll definately find a chick to plant one on and take home afrewards! Rock on! New Years is a party night for those who know how to party!
afc_2_dj
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What do you guys think of going out alone on New Years?
I had to come home early for work, my friends are still away on holiday, I'd like to go out [ though after the last week the mere thought of more alchol makes me quesy!
] but it looks like it will be alone? Guess its the same as going out alone other nights, but makes you look like more of a loser tho on NY's maybe?
I had to come home early for work, my friends are still away on holiday, I'd like to go out [ though after the last week the mere thought of more alchol makes me quesy!
] but it looks like it will be alone? Guess its the same as going out alone other nights, but makes you look like more of a loser tho on NY's maybe?"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.