"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New Years Challenge:

Oxide

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New Years is Upon Us. One of the easiest times to hook up with the girls is from 10pm-4am on Dec 31. So I want you to go out and have a good time, and meet some fun cute girls. Just be friendly, drink, be sociable and tell her that you think she is fun. And when the clock goes off, I want you to pull her close, look her in the eyes, and say "This one is for you" as your lips lock together.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Derek Flint

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Better yet, don't wait until Midnight to kiss her.
 

PRMoon

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Hell f*cking yeah! I'll be on las vegas blvd south come 2007's coming in and I'll definately find a chick to plant one on and take home afrewards! Rock on! New Years is a party night for those who know how to party!
 

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What do you guys think of going out alone on New Years?

I had to come home early for work, my friends are still away on holiday, I'd like to go out [ though after the last week the mere thought of more alchol makes me quesy! :) ] but it looks like it will be alone? Guess its the same as going out alone other nights, but makes you look like more of a loser tho on NY's maybe?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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