New Years is Upon Us. One of the easiest times to hook up with the girls is from 10pm-4am on Dec 31. So I want you to go out and have a good time, and meet some fun cute girls. Just be friendly, drink, be sociable and tell her that you think she is fun. And when the clock goes off, I want you to pull her close, look her in the eyes, and say "This one is for you" as your lips lock together.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
New Years Challenge:
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Better yet, don't wait until Midnight to kiss her.
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PRMoon
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Hell f*cking yeah! I'll be on las vegas blvd south come 2007's coming in and I'll definately find a chick to plant one on and take home afrewards! Rock on! New Years is a party night for those who know how to party!
afc_2_dj
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What do you guys think of going out alone on New Years?
I had to come home early for work, my friends are still away on holiday, I'd like to go out [ though after the last week the mere thought of more alchol makes me quesy!
] but it looks like it will be alone? Guess its the same as going out alone other nights, but makes you look like more of a loser tho on NY's maybe?
I had to come home early for work, my friends are still away on holiday, I'd like to go out [ though after the last week the mere thought of more alchol makes me quesy!
] but it looks like it will be alone? Guess its the same as going out alone other nights, but makes you look like more of a loser tho on NY's maybe?"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.