"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New Type of Female

Bigtrucker2008

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(Damn, I haven't been on here in a minuto.)

Ok, so I'm in college now. I'm used to getting girls and that is not really a problem. There's this girl who I always see around. She is one of those "rocker/hipster" chicks (she ALWAYS wears Converse Chuck Taylors and some type of tight fitting jeans. Her swag is almost as if she is part of a rock band or something.). She's Latina. I'm not. And I don't act or dress like that (Like I'm a member of Fall Out Boy or something.).

My question is, how should I approach her??? What would be the best way??? She just seems so intriguing to me.

I just want this best way to approach this different chick. Not some crap about "Well if you were a PUA....blah...blah....". I'm past all that. I'm just asking OPINIONS so I can stratigize and capitalize.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oakraiderz2

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Umm get a personality and talk to her. If shes a rocker chick and youre a...fall out boy dude, wheres the problem?
 

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You're intrigued, interested and she caught your eye.
I'd first suggest you just become aware of what is it that you like about her but over all ?

Being interested (about something ABOUT her) is enough

Be curious DUDE !!; be like a kid in the playground innocently turning over a rock to findout what's under it :D
 

Bigtrucker2008

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Dstructor said:
You're intrigued, interested and she caught your eye.
I'd first suggest you just become aware of what is it that you like about her but over all ?

Being interested (about something ABOUT her) is enough

Be curious DUDE !!; be like a kid in the playground innocently turning over a rock to findout what's under it :D


Yeah, I get what your saying. I just don't wanna be too curious........find out she has three nipples or some ish like that. :nono:
 

Bigtrucker2008

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Oh yeah, while I'm at it, I may as well add: I saw her in a piano class that I was interested in. I like playing the piano. Apparently she does too....................can you say: OH YEAH, BOUT TO GET THEM DRAWS!!!!:rockon:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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