"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bigtrucker2008

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(Damn, I haven't been on here in a minuto.)

Ok, so I'm in college now. I'm used to getting girls and that is not really a problem. There's this girl who I always see around. She is one of those "rocker/hipster" chicks (she ALWAYS wears Converse Chuck Taylors and some type of tight fitting jeans. Her swag is almost as if she is part of a rock band or something.). She's Latina. I'm not. And I don't act or dress like that (Like I'm a member of Fall Out Boy or something.).

My question is, how should I approach her??? What would be the best way??? She just seems so intriguing to me.

I just want this best way to approach this different chick. Not some crap about "Well if you were a PUA....blah...blah....". I'm past all that. I'm just asking OPINIONS so I can stratigize and capitalize.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Umm get a personality and talk to her. If shes a rocker chick and youre a...fall out boy dude, wheres the problem?
 

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You're intrigued, interested and she caught your eye.
I'd first suggest you just become aware of what is it that you like about her but over all ?

Being interested (about something ABOUT her) is enough

Be curious DUDE !!; be like a kid in the playground innocently turning over a rock to findout what's under it :D
 

Bigtrucker2008

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Dstructor said:
You're intrigued, interested and she caught your eye.
I'd first suggest you just become aware of what is it that you like about her but over all ?

Being interested (about something ABOUT her) is enough

Be curious DUDE !!; be like a kid in the playground innocently turning over a rock to findout what's under it :D


Yeah, I get what your saying. I just don't wanna be too curious........find out she has three nipples or some ish like that. :nono:
 

Bigtrucker2008

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Oh yeah, while I'm at it, I may as well add: I saw her in a piano class that I was interested in. I like playing the piano. Apparently she does too....................can you say: OH YEAH, BOUT TO GET THEM DRAWS!!!!:rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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