"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bigtrucker2008

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(Damn, I haven't been on here in a minuto.)

Ok, so I'm in college now. I'm used to getting girls and that is not really a problem. There's this girl who I always see around. She is one of those "rocker/hipster" chicks (she ALWAYS wears Converse Chuck Taylors and some type of tight fitting jeans. Her swag is almost as if she is part of a rock band or something.). She's Latina. I'm not. And I don't act or dress like that (Like I'm a member of Fall Out Boy or something.).

My question is, how should I approach her??? What would be the best way??? She just seems so intriguing to me.

I just want this best way to approach this different chick. Not some crap about "Well if you were a PUA....blah...blah....". I'm past all that. I'm just asking OPINIONS so I can stratigize and capitalize.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Umm get a personality and talk to her. If shes a rocker chick and youre a...fall out boy dude, wheres the problem?
 

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You're intrigued, interested and she caught your eye.
I'd first suggest you just become aware of what is it that you like about her but over all ?

Being interested (about something ABOUT her) is enough

Be curious DUDE !!; be like a kid in the playground innocently turning over a rock to findout what's under it :D
 

Bigtrucker2008

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Dstructor said:
You're intrigued, interested and she caught your eye.
I'd first suggest you just become aware of what is it that you like about her but over all ?

Being interested (about something ABOUT her) is enough

Be curious DUDE !!; be like a kid in the playground innocently turning over a rock to findout what's under it :D


Yeah, I get what your saying. I just don't wanna be too curious........find out she has three nipples or some ish like that. :nono:
 

Bigtrucker2008

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Oh yeah, while I'm at it, I may as well add: I saw her in a piano class that I was interested in. I like playing the piano. Apparently she does too....................can you say: OH YEAH, BOUT TO GET THEM DRAWS!!!!:rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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