"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
New TV series "My Next Wingman" casting
- Thread starter Demon
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Cloudtopsun2100
Senior Don Juan
well you get a one week bootcamp with a renowned PUA and get to be flown to South Florida... that would be cool if someone from sosuave could enter this show
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Derek Flint
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 24, 2002
- Messages
- 1,731
- Reaction score
- 40
Maybe "Mr know it all" can audition.
He's in San Diego, and he knows it all.
He's also a Marine, a Scholar, a future Lawyer and an all around he-man.
He also spends many of his posts trying to validate himself to a forum full of self-proclaimed virgins, all the while calling the same people he is trying to impress "Fags" so he is quite the interesting guy.
He also gets lots of dates by handing out his phone number, so he should be a shoo-in.
Since he constantly talks about how the forum is full of KJ's, and he's the real deal who's willing to back up his big talk, then he should audition.
I nominate you, Mr. Know It All, to audtion for this show, so everyone can see how cool you are.
He's in San Diego, and he knows it all.
He's also a Marine, a Scholar, a future Lawyer and an all around he-man.
He also spends many of his posts trying to validate himself to a forum full of self-proclaimed virgins, all the while calling the same people he is trying to impress "Fags" so he is quite the interesting guy.
He also gets lots of dates by handing out his phone number, so he should be a shoo-in.
Since he constantly talks about how the forum is full of KJ's, and he's the real deal who's willing to back up his big talk, then he should audition.
I nominate you, Mr. Know It All, to audtion for this show, so everyone can see how cool you are.
skip the pimp
Banned
- Joined
- Dec 25, 2006
- Messages
- 16
- Reaction score
- 0
ummm that site looks very fake and unprofessional
You're right about it taking years to be good. I didn't even really realize it until last night. I have been slowly changing over the years and lately felt like my game had plateaued. But I'm living with a HB9 now and when I was at the bar last night, she was the hottest one in the bar with me.
I still miss sarging on a regular basis and last night I sarged the waittress and it pissed off my gf.
Oh well.
I still miss sarging on a regular basis and last night I sarged the waittress and it pissed off my gf.
Oh well.
Quite so.skip the pimp said:
I did a little searching and as it turns out the "producers" is a UCLA film school grad student. How do I know? He has a myspace page. A few UCLA film grads have gone straight to fame, like John August, but we all can imagine the probability odds of his pilot being even noticed by any television producers, especially given the oversaturated market for dating-sex-PUA-themed shows.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Derek Flint
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 24, 2002
- Messages
- 1,731
- Reaction score
- 40
Don't know. I believe he has been banned before posting under other names though.Zero Hero said:
Did "Demon" want to fight everybody who disagreed with him too? :box:
Derek Flint
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 24, 2002
- Messages
- 1,731
- Reaction score
- 40
A poster who goes by the name of "Mr know it all"Zero Hero said:
He's big, buffed, a Marine, a Law Student, A Scholar, a Ladies Man.
All self-proclaimed of course.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
garrycarrick
New Member
harryden said:
I agree with u . links are not working .