You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Quite so.skip the pimp said:ummm that site looks very fake and unprofessional
Is that Demon?Derek Flint said:Maybe "Mr know it all" can audition.
He's in San Diego, and he knows it all.
He's also a Marine, a Scholar, a future Lawyer and an all around he-man.
He also spends many of his posts trying to validate himself to a forum full of self-proclaimed virgins, all the while calling the same people he is trying to impress "Fags" so he is quite the interesting guy.
He also gets lots of dates by handing out his phone number, so he should be a shoo-in.
Since he constantly talks about how the forum is full of KJ's, and he's the real deal who's willing to back up his big talk, then he should audition.
I nominate you, Mr. Know It All, to audtion for this show, so everyone can see how cool you are.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Don't know. I believe he has been banned before posting under other names though.Zero Hero said:Is that Demon?
A poster who goes by the name of "Mr know it all"Zero Hero said:Well who are you referring to then?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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