"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
New TV series "My Next Wingman" casting
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Cloudtopsun2100
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well you get a one week bootcamp with a renowned PUA and get to be flown to South Florida... that would be cool if someone from sosuave could enter this show
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Derek Flint
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Maybe "Mr know it all" can audition.
He's in San Diego, and he knows it all.
He's also a Marine, a Scholar, a future Lawyer and an all around he-man.
He also spends many of his posts trying to validate himself to a forum full of self-proclaimed virgins, all the while calling the same people he is trying to impress "Fags" so he is quite the interesting guy.
He also gets lots of dates by handing out his phone number, so he should be a shoo-in.
Since he constantly talks about how the forum is full of KJ's, and he's the real deal who's willing to back up his big talk, then he should audition.
I nominate you, Mr. Know It All, to audtion for this show, so everyone can see how cool you are.
He's in San Diego, and he knows it all.
He's also a Marine, a Scholar, a future Lawyer and an all around he-man.
He also spends many of his posts trying to validate himself to a forum full of self-proclaimed virgins, all the while calling the same people he is trying to impress "Fags" so he is quite the interesting guy.
He also gets lots of dates by handing out his phone number, so he should be a shoo-in.
Since he constantly talks about how the forum is full of KJ's, and he's the real deal who's willing to back up his big talk, then he should audition.
I nominate you, Mr. Know It All, to audtion for this show, so everyone can see how cool you are.
skip the pimp
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ummm that site looks very fake and unprofessional
You're right about it taking years to be good. I didn't even really realize it until last night. I have been slowly changing over the years and lately felt like my game had plateaued. But I'm living with a HB9 now and when I was at the bar last night, she was the hottest one in the bar with me.
I still miss sarging on a regular basis and last night I sarged the waittress and it pissed off my gf.
Oh well.
I still miss sarging on a regular basis and last night I sarged the waittress and it pissed off my gf.
Oh well.
Quite so.skip the pimp said:
I did a little searching and as it turns out the "producers" is a UCLA film school grad student. How do I know? He has a myspace page. A few UCLA film grads have gone straight to fame, like John August, but we all can imagine the probability odds of his pilot being even noticed by any television producers, especially given the oversaturated market for dating-sex-PUA-themed shows.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Derek Flint
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Don't know. I believe he has been banned before posting under other names though.Zero Hero said:
Did "Demon" want to fight everybody who disagreed with him too? :box:
Derek Flint
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A poster who goes by the name of "Mr know it all"Zero Hero said:
He's big, buffed, a Marine, a Law Student, A Scholar, a Ladies Man.
All self-proclaimed of course.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
garrycarrick
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harryden said:
I agree with u . links are not working .