"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Silex

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Currently I am gaming this stripper chick I met 3 days ago, took her to the movies. stuck my tongue down her throat the whole time, and when we were heading back, well... we made out even more. Made out in front of her door, I tried to go in but she was putting up some LMR.

I only spent $20 that night,

18 for the movie and 2 for wendy's.

But this brings me to a question, that i should have asked a long time ago...

If a chick asks: "what are your intentions with me?"..

how do I respond, while trying to convey that I want to get to know her, BUT I also want sex?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DisobeyThePope

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The saying "treat a wh0re like a lady, and a lady like a wh0re," usually isn't very helpful, but I believe it applies in this situation.

She's a stripper. You've had your tongue down her throat. She KNOWS that you want to have sex with her.


I'd avoid the question altogether if I were you; make a joke.

If you were to answer it, though, you should pretend for a moment that she's a lady, not a wh0re.
 

golfguy

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Well...I've seen a few strippers before, and you made one big mistake. Treated her like a ***** right off the bat. Yeah, maybe she is one...well..she probably is one, but you can't go in for the kill right away.

She has guys doing that to her several nights a week, so the advice, treat a ***** like a lady...wokrs beautiful here.

I think you've already ****ed your chance over by now by not answering that question to her satisfaction. BUT..you could always just be honest, and maybe she's looking for the same?? Who knows...

She's gotta be SOMEWHAT interested if she even asked you that question.
 

Silex

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thanks golf guy, i think your right. Treating her like a lady might work. But I don't know how long its gonna take. It sounds like she wants a LTR, and I will only be in miami for another 3-5 days. I haven't taken her on any expensive dinners as of yet, but does this mean I have to now?

I will still use my C+F routine with her, but now it seems that only works for ONS. I was on point that night at the theater...

I want to take her out again, so whats your ideas on a good cheap action date.. or is it even worth it with this chick?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So pimp its scary

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Strippers are a double edge swords...

They are most often fvcked in the head, BUT at the same time they will buy their boyfriends so much shyt if they treat her well.
 
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