"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Silex

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Currently I am gaming this stripper chick I met 3 days ago, took her to the movies. stuck my tongue down her throat the whole time, and when we were heading back, well... we made out even more. Made out in front of her door, I tried to go in but she was putting up some LMR.

I only spent $20 that night,

18 for the movie and 2 for wendy's.

But this brings me to a question, that i should have asked a long time ago...

If a chick asks: "what are your intentions with me?"..

how do I respond, while trying to convey that I want to get to know her, BUT I also want sex?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The saying "treat a wh0re like a lady, and a lady like a wh0re," usually isn't very helpful, but I believe it applies in this situation.

She's a stripper. You've had your tongue down her throat. She KNOWS that you want to have sex with her.


I'd avoid the question altogether if I were you; make a joke.

If you were to answer it, though, you should pretend for a moment that she's a lady, not a wh0re.
 

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Well...I've seen a few strippers before, and you made one big mistake. Treated her like a ***** right off the bat. Yeah, maybe she is one...well..she probably is one, but you can't go in for the kill right away.

She has guys doing that to her several nights a week, so the advice, treat a ***** like a lady...wokrs beautiful here.

I think you've already ****ed your chance over by now by not answering that question to her satisfaction. BUT..you could always just be honest, and maybe she's looking for the same?? Who knows...

She's gotta be SOMEWHAT interested if she even asked you that question.
 

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thanks golf guy, i think your right. Treating her like a lady might work. But I don't know how long its gonna take. It sounds like she wants a LTR, and I will only be in miami for another 3-5 days. I haven't taken her on any expensive dinners as of yet, but does this mean I have to now?

I will still use my C+F routine with her, but now it seems that only works for ONS. I was on point that night at the theater...

I want to take her out again, so whats your ideas on a good cheap action date.. or is it even worth it with this chick?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So pimp its scary

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Strippers are a double edge swords...

They are most often fvcked in the head, BUT at the same time they will buy their boyfriends so much shyt if they treat her well.
 
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