"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Silex

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Currently I am gaming this stripper chick I met 3 days ago, took her to the movies. stuck my tongue down her throat the whole time, and when we were heading back, well... we made out even more. Made out in front of her door, I tried to go in but she was putting up some LMR.

I only spent $20 that night,

18 for the movie and 2 for wendy's.

But this brings me to a question, that i should have asked a long time ago...

If a chick asks: "what are your intentions with me?"..

how do I respond, while trying to convey that I want to get to know her, BUT I also want sex?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DisobeyThePope

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The saying "treat a wh0re like a lady, and a lady like a wh0re," usually isn't very helpful, but I believe it applies in this situation.

She's a stripper. You've had your tongue down her throat. She KNOWS that you want to have sex with her.


I'd avoid the question altogether if I were you; make a joke.

If you were to answer it, though, you should pretend for a moment that she's a lady, not a wh0re.
 

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Well...I've seen a few strippers before, and you made one big mistake. Treated her like a ***** right off the bat. Yeah, maybe she is one...well..she probably is one, but you can't go in for the kill right away.

She has guys doing that to her several nights a week, so the advice, treat a ***** like a lady...wokrs beautiful here.

I think you've already ****ed your chance over by now by not answering that question to her satisfaction. BUT..you could always just be honest, and maybe she's looking for the same?? Who knows...

She's gotta be SOMEWHAT interested if she even asked you that question.
 

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thanks golf guy, i think your right. Treating her like a lady might work. But I don't know how long its gonna take. It sounds like she wants a LTR, and I will only be in miami for another 3-5 days. I haven't taken her on any expensive dinners as of yet, but does this mean I have to now?

I will still use my C+F routine with her, but now it seems that only works for ONS. I was on point that night at the theater...

I want to take her out again, so whats your ideas on a good cheap action date.. or is it even worth it with this chick?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So pimp its scary

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Strippers are a double edge swords...

They are most often fvcked in the head, BUT at the same time they will buy their boyfriends so much shyt if they treat her well.
 
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