"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Himynamesjoe

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Hey guys...

Im looking to really get the whole 'meeting/picking up chicks' part of my life in check. Im 19 btw, never really had trouble meeting girls, or talking to them, but I never seem to get phone numbers/dont really get up the courage to ask...

I just downloaded/read david deangelo's book 'double your dating' and it opened my eyes a fair bit into what to do and what I wasn't doing. I've used some of the stuff he talks about at work, and I can see how it works. (I'm one of about 3 guys working in a cafe, the other 37 employees are women haha)

So my question is to all of you more knowledgeable people is, what recomendations/advice towards books and other resources do you for someone like myself?

Joe
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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randalll

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Check out the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Definitely one of the best self improvement books I've read. It's mainly about spirituality and psychology, but you'll find that your inner game and confidence will skyrocket even before you've finished reading it. IMO it's more effective to work on your inner game and get that sorted before you learn any pick up lines or techniques. Also, with solid inner game comes a more natural, less routine outer game.
 

joe henny

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look for player supreme on youtube
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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NorwegianDJ

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Book of Pook.
Dude, seriously, DO NOT READ ALL THIS MATERIAL. Its all mental masturbation. You will most likely be stuck here for ever without ever actually going out and trying it. Like trying it for real, not meeting some chicks here and there.

Experience is the greatest teacher.
 
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