"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Himynamesjoe

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Hey guys...

Im looking to really get the whole 'meeting/picking up chicks' part of my life in check. Im 19 btw, never really had trouble meeting girls, or talking to them, but I never seem to get phone numbers/dont really get up the courage to ask...

I just downloaded/read david deangelo's book 'double your dating' and it opened my eyes a fair bit into what to do and what I wasn't doing. I've used some of the stuff he talks about at work, and I can see how it works. (I'm one of about 3 guys working in a cafe, the other 37 employees are women haha)

So my question is to all of you more knowledgeable people is, what recomendations/advice towards books and other resources do you for someone like myself?

Joe
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Check out the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Definitely one of the best self improvement books I've read. It's mainly about spirituality and psychology, but you'll find that your inner game and confidence will skyrocket even before you've finished reading it. IMO it's more effective to work on your inner game and get that sorted before you learn any pick up lines or techniques. Also, with solid inner game comes a more natural, less routine outer game.
 
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look for player supreme on youtube
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Book of Pook.
Dude, seriously, DO NOT READ ALL THIS MATERIAL. Its all mental masturbation. You will most likely be stuck here for ever without ever actually going out and trying it. Like trying it for real, not meeting some chicks here and there.

Experience is the greatest teacher.
 
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