"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Himynamesjoe

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Hey guys...

Im looking to really get the whole 'meeting/picking up chicks' part of my life in check. Im 19 btw, never really had trouble meeting girls, or talking to them, but I never seem to get phone numbers/dont really get up the courage to ask...

I just downloaded/read david deangelo's book 'double your dating' and it opened my eyes a fair bit into what to do and what I wasn't doing. I've used some of the stuff he talks about at work, and I can see how it works. (I'm one of about 3 guys working in a cafe, the other 37 employees are women haha)

So my question is to all of you more knowledgeable people is, what recomendations/advice towards books and other resources do you for someone like myself?

Joe
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Check out the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Definitely one of the best self improvement books I've read. It's mainly about spirituality and psychology, but you'll find that your inner game and confidence will skyrocket even before you've finished reading it. IMO it's more effective to work on your inner game and get that sorted before you learn any pick up lines or techniques. Also, with solid inner game comes a more natural, less routine outer game.
 
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look for player supreme on youtube
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Book of Pook.
Dude, seriously, DO NOT READ ALL THIS MATERIAL. Its all mental masturbation. You will most likely be stuck here for ever without ever actually going out and trying it. Like trying it for real, not meeting some chicks here and there.

Experience is the greatest teacher.
 
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