"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Himynamesjoe

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Hey guys...

Im looking to really get the whole 'meeting/picking up chicks' part of my life in check. Im 19 btw, never really had trouble meeting girls, or talking to them, but I never seem to get phone numbers/dont really get up the courage to ask...

I just downloaded/read david deangelo's book 'double your dating' and it opened my eyes a fair bit into what to do and what I wasn't doing. I've used some of the stuff he talks about at work, and I can see how it works. (I'm one of about 3 guys working in a cafe, the other 37 employees are women haha)

So my question is to all of you more knowledgeable people is, what recomendations/advice towards books and other resources do you for someone like myself?

Joe
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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Check out the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Definitely one of the best self improvement books I've read. It's mainly about spirituality and psychology, but you'll find that your inner game and confidence will skyrocket even before you've finished reading it. IMO it's more effective to work on your inner game and get that sorted before you learn any pick up lines or techniques. Also, with solid inner game comes a more natural, less routine outer game.
 
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joe henny

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look for player supreme on youtube
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NorwegianDJ

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Book of Pook.
Dude, seriously, DO NOT READ ALL THIS MATERIAL. Its all mental masturbation. You will most likely be stuck here for ever without ever actually going out and trying it. Like trying it for real, not meeting some chicks here and there.

Experience is the greatest teacher.
 
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