zekko
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I think both sides are a little correct, and a little wrong.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
New study finds single women are happier than single men
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
BaronOfHair
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Even ignorance has it perks, this is true... Slaves who gained a high degree of literacy in The US became far LESS satisfied than they were when unlettered, and men who discover that the world is far larger and more diverse than their neighborhood and village cease being content once they're aware of said fact
The Diver
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I don't care what the research says; I think it's BS. In my real-life observations, when I go to a dance venue with my gf, all the single women who are sitting with other women or by themselves look depressed. ( And sometimes even the women sitting with a partner)
They can say whatever they want and whatever sounds good in the research, but when no one is looking, you can see the real answer.
I think a very, very small percentage of single women are not necessarily happy, but content with being by themselves after checking out of the dating market.
They can say whatever they want and whatever sounds good in the research, but when no one is looking, you can see the real answer.
I think a very, very small percentage of single women are not necessarily happy, but content with being by themselves after checking out of the dating market.
RangerMIke
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If you want to be single, and are single then you are going to be happier. Not sure why this is a surprise.
I have a number of female friends who are married... at some level all of them are not happy for different reasons. In contrast, I have a number of female friends who are single and they seem to be fine. Women do a lot better at being able to meet their emotional needs with friends and pets than men.
Relationships are hard to maintain. Anyone that removes difficulty from their lives will be happier.
I have a number of female friends who are married... at some level all of them are not happy for different reasons. In contrast, I have a number of female friends who are single and they seem to be fine. Women do a lot better at being able to meet their emotional needs with friends and pets than men.
Relationships are hard to maintain. Anyone that removes difficulty from their lives will be happier.
This is basically the philosophy of a lazy hedonist, which most women are, but which also fundamentally isn't a happier existence than one with any sort of meaning.
Tale as old as time.
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So basically the study confirms "women dont need no man"? good i guess.. Have fun ladies.. Now if they can stop complaining about not being able to find a "good man" or being invisible when they are older.
Life gives people many tests. This seems to be one of them directed at women. You know the same type of test that told women "never settle, your king is just arround the corner". Or that waiting to have kids in your 40's isnt too bad. You'll be fine.
This is one seems to say, women you arent feeling depressed (oh women are the most medicated group in the world), you feel happy. Now to think of it, are those the meds doing all the talking? taking the surveys? Whatever...
the following is fact (not self reported. Why are women getting on meds more than in the past?)
wilewomen.com
npwomenshealthcare.com
oh, breaking news. A Harvard study has showed the happiest group of people are those that get high all the time.Those that dont get high arent as happy.
Life gives people many tests. This seems to be one of them directed at women. You know the same type of test that told women "never settle, your king is just arround the corner". Or that waiting to have kids in your 40's isnt too bad. You'll be fine.
This is one seems to say, women you arent feeling depressed (oh women are the most medicated group in the world), you feel happy. Now to think of it, are those the meds doing all the talking? taking the surveys? Whatever...
the following is fact (not self reported. Why are women getting on meds more than in the past?)
Why Are American Women Over 40 the Biggest Antidepressant Market | Wile
Major depression is common around menopause; however, this isn’t the only reason American women over 40 are the largest market for antidepressants.
wilewomen.com
Older Women Use the Most Antidepressants, Survey Finds
Nearly one-quarter of women older than 60 who were surveyed reported taking antidepressant medications, according to the data brief.
npwomenshealthcare.com
oh, breaking news. A Harvard study has showed the happiest group of people are those that get high all the time.Those that dont get high arent as happy.
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BaronOfHair
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Not long ago, Ross Douhat over at The NYT wailed:
www.nytimes.com
"In the future, there will be only one 'ism'—Individualism—and its rule will never end. As for religion, it shall decline; as for marriage, it shall be postponed; as for ideologies, they shall be rejected; as for patriotism, it shall be abandoned; as for strangers, they shall be distrusted"
The individualism pundits were horrified over in The Early 10s went into something of a recession from '16-forward, with The Anglosphere at least being heavily divided between The Woke and The Red Pilled... Perhaps the rise of Single and Happier among both genders is the beginning of something approaching a revival of that individualism
Unless kids are in the picture, the case for being heavily tied down to one person is weaker than Hayden Panettiere's chances of appearing in the inevitable Heroes revival, in anything other than CGI
Opinion | The Age of Individualism (Published 2014)
Will the millennials come back to community?
"In the future, there will be only one 'ism'—Individualism—and its rule will never end. As for religion, it shall decline; as for marriage, it shall be postponed; as for ideologies, they shall be rejected; as for patriotism, it shall be abandoned; as for strangers, they shall be distrusted"
The individualism pundits were horrified over in The Early 10s went into something of a recession from '16-forward, with The Anglosphere at least being heavily divided between The Woke and The Red Pilled... Perhaps the rise of Single and Happier among both genders is the beginning of something approaching a revival of that individualism
Unless kids are in the picture, the case for being heavily tied down to one person is weaker than Hayden Panettiere's chances of appearing in the inevitable Heroes revival, in anything other than CGI