"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New roommate is a total geek...

DJVladdy

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damnnn thats deep, you always thinkin lol
I feel the pimp-ness radiating as im reading ur post haha,
i was about to be like yo im not a bytch, why u playing hard to get with me online?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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besides, this thread deserves to be hijacked, i think Chris got the point
 

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ChrizZ said:
I overreacted a little bit.

You are right.

However I DO NOT have sympathy for weak men like him that sit at home all day and play videogames. If he asks for help I'll help him. I hoped for another alpha male to learn from, but I got a beta male.

I'll try to take advantage of this though. As I said his computer skills might be useful for starting my own business.
I thought the DJ is the guy that lives life, not the guy who always acts alpha. It always seems that the geeky guy who likes computers and anime is the guy that is "weak." Granted, many does hold true, many lacks social skills, but having an interest in geeky and nerdy stuff and being with those type of people (including girls) does not mean he have to abandon that. If such a person have that problem he need to get read of the lack of social skills, not his interests, too many fail to realize that.

I don't know that guy, I don't even know you, but I found that there are many paths, the true problematic path is the path of submission, like the guy KarmaSutra described of the man he is helping now who was filled with defeatism. This guy may not go around acting suave, but it doesn't mean he is living a loserly life.
 

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You said the guy had a GF, right? That's a step in the right direction.

And you said she looks exactly like him...people are drawn to others that are about their same level of looks. So if you're such an alpha male, I'm sure you'll find some stuck-up princess type sooner or later. But don't go hating on other people because you think they're "below" your level.
 

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ChrizZ said:
"Hi, I'm Christopher and I'm totally weird and a super geek" is what he said when he first entered the dorm to greet me.

I was looking at a tall, anorexic guy dressed as a total geek carrying a supercomputer in his one arm and an xbox and playstation in the other.. Next to him stood his girlfriend who was the female version of him.

He doesn't do any sports because he has a health problem.

He says he doesn't do anything except play video games all day. I'm talking about a geek like this

Now don't get me wrong here, I don't wanna sound arrogant, but we are completely different.

I'm on a good path to become a real man, but I'm afraid he'll drag me down with his nerdyness. What should I do? Try to help him out or just move out?
No offence but you're not a Kevin Levrone yourself and he still gets laid.

MM
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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I like to sit around and play video games.

I also don't take peoples ****.

And to boot I am not socially retarded.

In the power hierarchy of the human group, two other roles also are defined and named. First, the beta male, which is the contender, subservient to the alpha male, but only after testing. The betas act as second-in-command and can either be dethroned alpha males or future alphas if they persist in challenging the regnant alpha male. The term omega male (ω-male) is an antonym often used in a deprecating or self-deprecating manner to refer to males at the bottom of the social hierarchy. An omega male will be subservient to both the alpha and the beta males.



Let a woman see you act like a **** to that so called "beta" male... and you just may become that "beta male" yourself.
 

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from experience i've found there are advantages and disadvantages to geeky roommates...

while you might find it annoying to bring friends (especially girls) back to the apartment sometimes, or he that he's using the tv too often...

you will like that he's not out there trying to c0ckblock you, hit on girls you bring home, too loud and obnoxious or being a competitive, arrogant pr1ck

be nice to him, because believe me, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages
 
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