New Plate: No Sex till Marraige

[SamePendo]

I'd say it easy:

Keep pushing for sex. If she gives it up, she wasn't really on with "marriage" stuff. If she doesn't, even through your best efforts, she's the sh!t.

If she gives it up, she will surely then pull the "I didn't know what I was doing" or "I got carried away" or some bs like that. So beware.

 

[Drewskie]

No report?? Or she your new LTR??

 

[slickaz]

oh sorry man i didnt post a reply on this.

so i broke into it.
NOT that night, but couple after.

that night and we got all hot and heavy and i thought that was it, im gonna get it from her..
but then all i got was head.
Although, she let me put my hands in her.which was a first.
she really enjoyed it but felt extremely guilty after.

i made her feel relaxed with alot of talk after.
and fingered her again, this time she made the bed wet.
so i realized i had a squirter...which is cool.

then i tried gettin in, and she said something like
plz baby, not tonight i feel kinda guilty for going this far.

i didnt wanna push, coz i could see it in her eyes, she loved the pleasure but she was really upset.

we lay in bed cuddling and she said the L word.
and said she let me go this far because she thinks we're going to be together forever.
and i said just calm down and dont get so guilty, you're speaking like this because you're feeling guilty.
she took it as an insult and argued with me, then i calmed her down again but sternly and she then realized she could lose me if she went on like this.
i just blamed it on her guilt and fear being the cause that she's mad at me for trying to be a nice guy and please her and not even get ANYTHING i want from this..
she apologized..forgot that i didnt reply to her L word.

next day, all day, i woke up first, outta bed dressed and off to work, left a note saying i look forward to more of her and that i really enjoyed putting her to bed and waking up next to her beautiful face..
she rung me and thanked me said she wants to see me 2 days after that for a special night.
i know she called her girlfriends when she woke up and had a 2 hour convo because she rung them from my house phone.
all good.she let herself out.

2 days later as planned i came back from hong kong on a work thing and visited her.
she made dinner, candles up, rose petals everywhere and it was beautiful
i was very surprised. it actually took me back how much effort she had gone into.
we had dinner, drinking wine, and then started making out on the floor. she had one incense candle set infront of us on the floor.

i stood up, stood her up, carried her with her legs around my waist to her bedroom..and set more candles up and we go in..
and i tell you what, that WAs AMAZING!!!

and i didnt go to work the next day...

she's been at my place everyday since, its been like 3 days she's been staying over at mine and EVERYDAY she wants it..i have to say, she's pretty good coz she listens to what i want and does exactly the way i ask her to do it..

only one problem..
she keeps saying the L word..and i have said it back, I KNOW...I SHOULDNT but i did.because i felt guilty..

also, i havent spoken to my other plates in the last 3 days or so. i do get texts from them i just havent been able to reply.

 

[Drewskie]

Nice, congrats. The only virgin I ever hit dropped the L bomb really quick too. So was she actually a squirter, or just messy?? I had one squirter too, it's pretty fun. BTW......what the hell do you do that you get to travel soo much? I gotta get into that field.

 

[slickaz]

im a principal global business consultant for a very big named consulting organization.
basically advise clients around the world on how they should do what they do.
The clients pay for the flights and hotels.

plus i also travel for my businesses, i have a couple of businesses in music and in the clubbing field, that gets me to travel to tokyo alot. but my primary travel is from my 9-5.

Yeh she's a squirter, not messy, but squirts. its good though. she got like that after i relaxed her abit and get the tension out her muscles, you know the time, when their eyes go up into the eye lids, bitin herself n stuff..lol.

yeh that was very interesting, ive actually YET to find a virgin who bleeds the next day after the first time. i always thought virgins are supposed to bleed.
im passing it on either i was lied to, or she's using something with a battery, or sports and physical activity broke the hymen. i dunno. she didnt bleed, but i knew it was her first time, coz she clenched me tooooo tight that night!..

 

[BustedKnucks]

Keep working your game, if this goes on more than a week with no sex ganji her ass.

 

[Drewskie]

I must admit, I am very jealous of that job, not that I know exactly what you do, but the traveling part. How many supposed v' cards have you taken? I always though they would bleed too, but never did.......either she was lying, or doin a lil gymnastics as a kid....??? Seems odd that a girl who never got banged would be able to squirt.. I hear it usually happens to older experienced women who not they're not going to piss themselves...either way, glad you had fun.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Just as I predicted. The next chapter is that you have to dump her like a hot potatoe and move on. She'll likely feel attached to you. It's obvious that she has to feel comfortable with someone to lose it with.

This girl represents the oneitis I had over two and a half years ago and has come back to life in this thread. This thread is a possible scenerio reading it from the player's vantage point. She'll probably write a myspace page now saying how you dumped her like a hot potatoe and call all men liars. Some guy will probably read it and hate her guts as she ignored another nice guy that thought he had something with her. That is my vantage point.

I had to read this sh1t on February 3rd. Let's see what I'll read on this board on March 3rd when the next date for renewal is. I'm going to write a fictional book on this crap and make a tonne of money thanks to ideas on this thread and elsewhere.

Hopefully this will get this oneitis out of my mind for good. This is why I got so angry with her that I almost lost my virginity with another girl from AFF in November on virginity-revenge sex but aborted the mission.

You see, iambrian81, izzi, Alle_Gory are trying to convince me to lose my virginity on a girl -- and I say -- I ain't going to do that. You understand. But when I read this thread, it's like something worst than anyone on this board can say combined. Hopefully I'll forget about this oneitis one day -- curse the day I ever crossed paths with her.

 

[slickaz]

what i do:
as a principal consultant essentially im an advisor for large global corporations. most of them are constantly undergoing change and project work. large to small. i come in when they are making changes across the globe, so large projects. as an advisor and conduct independent work with my team and then provide them with solutions,ideas and over see the work being done across many different locations.
so next week ill be in costa rica doing some work for one of the worlds top "pc chip makers" you know who they are im sure. itll involve me drawing up plans and advising them on how to go about doing what it is they want to do.
its a good job, if you like being stuck on yo blackberry, laptop and flying around the world in business class. the money is very good, you get chauffeur driven etc. BUT it sucks if you have a family or a LTR.
im lucky because i get to chose where and when i want to fly, i have a cool boss. but some consultants like me are not so lucky.
its not bad if you want to quickly make tons of money and sit on executive meetings. like one of my projects was working with a dubai investment company building a one of a kind building in the world. that was cool.

Yeh ive had a couple of v's who have squirted though. so im thinking maybe she's fingered herself before.i dunno.
ive had a good share of vcards, which is pretty cool. i think also that girls generally dont bleed immediately after losing it, maybe happens a while later? i dunno, but this girl used to be a athlete in school and college so i think she broke her hymen anyway.
still..its awesome fun

 

[Drewskie]

I've always wanted to go to Costa Rica, let us know how it is. A few v's that squirted too?? Damn, it's hard enough to find the two separately, you must have banged a helluva lot of chicks to find some like that. Big pimpin my man.

 

[slickaz]

Just as I predicted. The next chapter is that you have to dump her like a hot potatoe and move on. She'll likely feel attached to you. It's obvious that she has to feel comfortable with someone to lose it with.

This girl represents the oneitis I had over two and a half years ago and has come back to life in this thread. This thread is a possible scenerio reading it from the player's vantage point. She'll probably write a myspace page now saying how you dumped her like a hot potatoe and call all men liars. Some guy will probably read it and hate her guts as she ignored another nice guy that thought he had something with her. That is my vantage point.

I had to read this sh1t on February 3rd. Let's see what I'll read on this board on March 3rd when the next date for renewal is.

DAMN! you a cold muhfvka!

you want me to dump this chic coz you got a oneitis? DAYUM!!!!!
you must hate her guts man!!

ok so heres the story,
im gonna keep this chic hanging for a bit, before i drop it.
thing is i have no reason to drop her, she really is a good catch.
she cooks,
she cleans,
she buys me stuff,
she makes sure anything she wears is around what i wear or want her to wear.
she tells her friends about me like im a star in her life.
and she gives me s3x exactly how i want it.
infact!!! she says this in bed "what do you want me to do baby, just say it..ill do it..."
THAT IS AWEsOMENESS!!!
so im thinkin..hmmmmmmm..why would i drop her?

i know if i did she'll be broken,
she's dropped all the guys in her life, all the friends that tried hittin on her..
lol.

anyway will holla quick

 

[Alle_Gory]

Alle_Gory are trying to convince me to lose my virginity on a girl -- and I say -- I ain't going to do that.

I just want you to STFU and stop giving advice. You're a 32 year old loser living at home with mommy, I don't help losers. Its too late for you.

ok so heres the story,
im gonna keep this chic hanging for a bit, before i drop it.
thing is i have no reason to drop her, she really is a good catch.
she cooks,
she cleans,
she buys me stuff,
she makes sure anything she wears is around what i wear or want her to wear.
she tells her friends about me like im a star in her life.
and she gives me s3x exactly how i want it.
infact!!! she says this in bed "what do you want me to do baby, just say it..ill do it..."
THAT IS AWEsOMENESS!!!
so im thinkin..hmmmmmmm..why would i drop her?

BTW. Damn! Where did you find this girl???

 

[slickaz]

hahahahahahah

i met her thru some AFC friends that hv been trying to get her in bed but she never goes there with any of em. it took me while to get into her but i did it slow and steady,lol

 

[Alle_Gory]

hahahahahahah

i met her thru some AFC friends that hv been trying to get her in bed but she never goes there with any of em. it took me while to get into her but i did it slow and steady,lol

Well damn. I would try to set her straight. No use getting rid of her when she can do all that for you.

 

[bigpaul5884]

any updates?

 

[scribblec]

You see, iambrian81, izzi, Alle_Gory are trying to convince me to lose my virginity on a girl -- and I say -- I ain't going to do that. You understand. But when I read this thread, it's like something worst than anyone on this board can say combined. Hopefully I'll forget about this oneitis one day -- curse the day I ever crossed paths with her.

you want to lose it with a guy instead?