Hey wadup I'm new I really want to change myself this summer. I want to be a whole new person for the next two years of high school and the rest of my life. I think I have a low self esteem and confidence. I'm black and when I was a frosh I was real popular everyone knew me and talked to me I didn't even play a sport cept for track and I never really talked to other kids at my school. Now sophomore I played football and their are alot of white people on the squad and I started to hangout with them alot it's cool tho since are school not really racist everyone blends in nicely but I've been hereing people say I've turned white and shi since I hang out with white people alot nowadays. I want to be popular again and hangout with both white and black people and just be a people person. Also I never had a girlfriend I kissed a few grls but never had the balls to go with them. Anyway where should I start on my road to being a DJ
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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be nice to everyone, join a sport team and make friends with ur team members, dont look to start fights , and ignore any *******s who try to bring u down
Thats really a matter of personal opinion. The main bible is big, and tends to scare people off, (it did me). I started out on the High school bible (well Lorenzo's anyway) and turned out fine. So i'm sure you'll be able to do the same with Matrix's or nocturnal's.
Don't Be afraid to ask questions, but please do us all a favor. Read and reread the bible before you start asking questions that are already in there
thanks.
Don't Be afraid to ask questions, but please do us all a favor. Read and reread the bible before you start asking questions that are already in there
thanks."I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Also, please use the "search" button before posting a question you feel might have been posted before.Originally posted by Vincent
Thats really a matter of personal opinion. The main bible is big, and tends to scare people off, (it did me). I started out on the High school bible (well Lorenzo's anyway) and turned out fine. So i'm sure you'll be able to do the same with Matrix's or nocturnal's.
Don't Be afraid to ask questions, but please do us all a favor. Read and reread the bible before you start asking questions that are already in there
Other than that, look around, have fun, and good luck!
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I personally do not like the official HS Bible, I like the New Age Bible. Plus I think a couple of those posts are missing from the regular HS bible.
Best Of Luck To You Too
And use that search button (I have just began using it and saving alot of time and posts using it)
Best Of Luck To You Too
And use that search button (I have just began using it and saving alot of time and posts using it)
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
If You did not find the link to the New Age Bible here it is.
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?threadid=33715
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?threadid=33715
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.