"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Hey wadup I'm new I really want to change myself this summer. I want to be a whole new person for the next two years of high school and the rest of my life. I think I have a low self esteem and confidence. I'm black and when I was a frosh I was real popular everyone knew me and talked to me I didn't even play a sport cept for track and I never really talked to other kids at my school. Now sophomore I played football and their are alot of white people on the squad and I started to hangout with them alot it's cool tho since are school not really racist everyone blends in nicely but I've been hereing people say I've turned white and shi since I hang out with white people alot nowadays. I want to be popular again and hangout with both white and black people and just be a people person. Also I never had a girlfriend I kissed a few grls but never had the balls to go with them. Anyway where should I start on my road to being a DJ
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Raven125

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Read the DJ bible... The link at the top of the page.
 

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be nice to everyone, join a sport team and make friends with ur team members, dont look to start fights , and ignore any *******s who try to bring u down
 

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Which bible should I read the HS one or the DJ BIBLE.
 

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Thats really a matter of personal opinion. The main bible is big, and tends to scare people off, (it did me). I started out on the High school bible (well Lorenzo's anyway) and turned out fine. So i'm sure you'll be able to do the same with Matrix's or nocturnal's.

Don't Be afraid to ask questions, but please do us all a favor. Read and reread the bible before you start asking questions that are already in there :D thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Vincent
Thats really a matter of personal opinion. The main bible is big, and tends to scare people off, (it did me). I started out on the High school bible (well Lorenzo's anyway) and turned out fine. So i'm sure you'll be able to do the same with Matrix's or nocturnal's.

Don't Be afraid to ask questions, but please do us all a favor. Read and reread the bible before you start asking questions that are already in there :D thanks.
Also, please use the "search" button before posting a question you feel might have been posted before.

Other than that, look around, have fun, and good luck!
 

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Thanks for all your help. Is their a set way to read the bible. I'm thinking of reading the high school one first then the DJ.
 

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I personally do not like the official HS Bible, I like the New Age Bible. Plus I think a couple of those posts are missing from the regular HS bible.

Best Of Luck To You Too

And use that search button (I have just began using it and saving alot of time and posts using it)
 

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Can you give me a link to the new age bible
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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