Whats up guys..just want to say hello and the fact Im glad i came acoss this place. Im 18, pretty much an AFC my entire life and quite frankly Im ****ing sick of it and Im about to turn the AFC boat the **** around (im motovated lol). Sick and tired of not having the balls to talk to random girls etc. My question is...how in the hell do i open to a girl? FYI Im not out of shape, Ive been lifting for the past 2 years so all I really need to focus on is my social aspect. It just seems that I get frozen in conversation or when even thinking about talking to a good looking girl..any opener help/drills would be greatly appreciated.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MikeAndIke
Don Juan
Start with the DJ Bible. That should get the ball rolling.
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I think the DJ Bible, while very good, is info overload for newbies.
Try Brad's Secret Guide in the Don Juan Tips forum. It's more concise.
Try Brad's Secret Guide in the Don Juan Tips forum. It's more concise.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Since you have the body/fitness handled, the next step is getting the coolest hairstyle. Then on to clothing.
For opening, you first need to think about where you are going to meet girls. What you use in a club might be very different than what you use in class at school.
For opening, you first need to think about where you are going to meet girls. What you use in a club might be very different than what you use in class at school.
Appreciate the help guys..reading brads guide now and it seems pretty good, nice and concise. As for now Ive been trying to just carry conversations on with other people lately whether it be in restaurants or the mall or hell even the cashier at starbucks, seems to be helping a little so far