Whats up guys..just want to say hello and the fact Im glad i came acoss this place. Im 18, pretty much an AFC my entire life and quite frankly Im ****ing sick of it and Im about to turn the AFC boat the **** around (im motovated lol). Sick and tired of not having the balls to talk to random girls etc. My question is...how in the hell do i open to a girl? FYI Im not out of shape, Ive been lifting for the past 2 years so all I really need to focus on is my social aspect. It just seems that I get frozen in conversation or when even thinking about talking to a good looking girl..any opener help/drills would be greatly appreciated.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
New Here...motivated
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MikeAndIke
Don Juan
Start with the DJ Bible. That should get the ball rolling.
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I think the DJ Bible, while very good, is info overload for newbies.
Try Brad's Secret Guide in the Don Juan Tips forum. It's more concise.
Try Brad's Secret Guide in the Don Juan Tips forum. It's more concise.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Since you have the body/fitness handled, the next step is getting the coolest hairstyle. Then on to clothing.
For opening, you first need to think about where you are going to meet girls. What you use in a club might be very different than what you use in class at school.
For opening, you first need to think about where you are going to meet girls. What you use in a club might be very different than what you use in class at school.
Appreciate the help guys..reading brads guide now and it seems pretty good, nice and concise. As for now Ive been trying to just carry conversations on with other people lately whether it be in restaurants or the mall or hell even the cashier at starbucks, seems to be helping a little so far