"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was led there after getting the "need space" line and losing my ex of three years. Googled how to get ex back and somehow ended up on there and it did actually help me as i'm over it now just two months later. But it is too feminine and depressing for my taste now that i've moved on from the ex, and i'm steering clear of relationships while looking to bang out as many hot women as I can, and I know this site will be a hellva lot more helpful with that then LS. So thanks for trolling it, I probably would have never found this site. I really need to do a lot of work on myself, i've already been friended by the first two women i've tried to get with, so ya thanks again everyone.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Take this time to talk to the GUYS here and get that masculinity back in shape. :cool:
 

bigjohnson

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That goal of banging out hot chicks might be a little shallow for the long term but in the short term you might find it healing I suppose. Just not my thing so much, if I want that I can't stand the inevitable goodbye part. Too softhearted.

Good luck to you though.

If nothing else there are a number of fun guys to chat with particularly in the mature men area.

EDIT:

Oh, age 21? Disregard and mazel-tov.
 

DonGorgon

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bigjohnson said:
That goal of banging out hot chicks might be a little shallow for the long term but in the short term you might find it healing I suppose. Just not my thing so much, if I want that I can't stand the inevitable goodbye part. Too softhearted.

Good luck to you though.

If nothing else there are a number of fun guys to chat with particularly in the mature men area.

EDIT:

Oh, age 21? Disregard and mazel-tov.
Yeh i want a good woman too but I cant find any... all i see is hos and slut many of whom ware disguises
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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romangod

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Technical1 said:
you just hit the jackpot, Baconator! Welcome to SoSuave!!!


Yes. Welcome! There's a bunch of great guys here of all ages that can save you a lot of misery and help you survive the Matrix. Cheers!
 

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TheBaconator said:
I was led there after getting the "need space" line and losing my ex of three years. Googled how to get ex back and somehow ended up on there and it did actually help me as i'm over it now just two months later. But it is too feminine and depressing for my taste now that i've moved on from the ex, and i'm steering clear of relationships while looking to bang out as many hot women as I can, and I know this site will be a hellva lot more helpful with that then LS. So thanks for trolling it, I probably would have never found this site. I really need to do a lot of work on myself, i've already been friended by the first two women i've tried to get with, so ya thanks again everyone.

Just joined from LS, too. Got tired of reading the Feminazi posts. Sounded too much like my cheating ex-wife.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh and change your user-name, Ima. New beginnings and everything.
 

KarmaSutra

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The Brotherhood.

Ima Whimp and TheBaconator,

Welcome and now join the ranks as Privates in the SoSuave ARMY.

Welcome to our Brotherhood.

First thing I suggest is to start a thread in the Mature Man section (if you're of appropriate age). Include a brief description of who you are and what brought you here and what issues you're having.

Best to stay away from the: "Why can't I get a girl?" questions because those are asymptomatic of the underlying issue.

Be honest and let us know what your core issues are. This way we can dissect and rationalize a thorough gameplan for you.

Know that there are some pretty spectacular people here.
 

Quiksilver

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Welcome to sosuave.

Please do more reading(www.sosuave.com) than posting, trust me it helps.

I turned my life around by reading the main part of this site, and then accidentally clicked the Discussion Forum link.

:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KarmaSutra said:
Best to stay away from the: "Why can't I get a girl?" questions because those are asymptomatic of the underlying issue.
I agree with this---maybe you saved these dudes a lot of time.
 

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Welcome Brother. Good luck banging all the ho's that are out there waiting for you.

Oh and Mazel Tov.
 

bigjohnson

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wjh said:
Welcome, ex-LoveShackers =)
Despite what some Nazis at LS think I don't believe it has to be an exclusive relationship in this case.
 

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I'm a Loveshacker too! And here to learn some stuff they don't teach in my school and move on from my ex who dumped me because I was such a nice guy.
Is anyone motivated in starting the 2008 edition of the bootcamp? Just starting the thing together, giving each other support and insight, rather than going on our own and abandoning after a few days for whatever stupid reason we come up with. Summer vacations are coming up pretty quickly, it would be nice to be a master DJ by then :cheer:
 
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This place will truly change you! I was the biggest AFC in the world! Now I am at least getting laid consistently. I still let the AFC out once I get the woman, and she ends up leaving me.

I am getting better though!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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