"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was led there after getting the "need space" line and losing my ex of three years. Googled how to get ex back and somehow ended up on there and it did actually help me as i'm over it now just two months later. But it is too feminine and depressing for my taste now that i've moved on from the ex, and i'm steering clear of relationships while looking to bang out as many hot women as I can, and I know this site will be a hellva lot more helpful with that then LS. So thanks for trolling it, I probably would have never found this site. I really need to do a lot of work on myself, i've already been friended by the first two women i've tried to get with, so ya thanks again everyone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Take this time to talk to the GUYS here and get that masculinity back in shape. :cool:
 

bigjohnson

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That goal of banging out hot chicks might be a little shallow for the long term but in the short term you might find it healing I suppose. Just not my thing so much, if I want that I can't stand the inevitable goodbye part. Too softhearted.

Good luck to you though.

If nothing else there are a number of fun guys to chat with particularly in the mature men area.

EDIT:

Oh, age 21? Disregard and mazel-tov.
 

DonGorgon

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bigjohnson said:
That goal of banging out hot chicks might be a little shallow for the long term but in the short term you might find it healing I suppose. Just not my thing so much, if I want that I can't stand the inevitable goodbye part. Too softhearted.

Good luck to you though.

If nothing else there are a number of fun guys to chat with particularly in the mature men area.

EDIT:

Oh, age 21? Disregard and mazel-tov.
Yeh i want a good woman too but I cant find any... all i see is hos and slut many of whom ware disguises
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Technical1 said:
you just hit the jackpot, Baconator! Welcome to SoSuave!!!


Yes. Welcome! There's a bunch of great guys here of all ages that can save you a lot of misery and help you survive the Matrix. Cheers!
 

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TheBaconator said:
I was led there after getting the "need space" line and losing my ex of three years. Googled how to get ex back and somehow ended up on there and it did actually help me as i'm over it now just two months later. But it is too feminine and depressing for my taste now that i've moved on from the ex, and i'm steering clear of relationships while looking to bang out as many hot women as I can, and I know this site will be a hellva lot more helpful with that then LS. So thanks for trolling it, I probably would have never found this site. I really need to do a lot of work on myself, i've already been friended by the first two women i've tried to get with, so ya thanks again everyone.

Just joined from LS, too. Got tired of reading the Feminazi posts. Sounded too much like my cheating ex-wife.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh and change your user-name, Ima. New beginnings and everything.
 

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The Brotherhood.

Ima Whimp and TheBaconator,

Welcome and now join the ranks as Privates in the SoSuave ARMY.

Welcome to our Brotherhood.

First thing I suggest is to start a thread in the Mature Man section (if you're of appropriate age). Include a brief description of who you are and what brought you here and what issues you're having.

Best to stay away from the: "Why can't I get a girl?" questions because those are asymptomatic of the underlying issue.

Be honest and let us know what your core issues are. This way we can dissect and rationalize a thorough gameplan for you.

Know that there are some pretty spectacular people here.
 

Quiksilver

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Welcome to sosuave.

Please do more reading(www.sosuave.com) than posting, trust me it helps.

I turned my life around by reading the main part of this site, and then accidentally clicked the Discussion Forum link.

:up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KarmaSutra said:
Best to stay away from the: "Why can't I get a girl?" questions because those are asymptomatic of the underlying issue.
I agree with this---maybe you saved these dudes a lot of time.
 

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Welcome Brother. Good luck banging all the ho's that are out there waiting for you.

Oh and Mazel Tov.
 

bigjohnson

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wjh said:
Welcome, ex-LoveShackers =)
Despite what some Nazis at LS think I don't believe it has to be an exclusive relationship in this case.
 

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I'm a Loveshacker too! And here to learn some stuff they don't teach in my school and move on from my ex who dumped me because I was such a nice guy.
Is anyone motivated in starting the 2008 edition of the bootcamp? Just starting the thing together, giving each other support and insight, rather than going on our own and abandoning after a few days for whatever stupid reason we come up with. Summer vacations are coming up pretty quickly, it would be nice to be a master DJ by then :cheer:
 
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This place will truly change you! I was the biggest AFC in the world! Now I am at least getting laid consistently. I still let the AFC out once I get the woman, and she ends up leaving me.

I am getting better though!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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