"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheBaconator

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I was led there after getting the "need space" line and losing my ex of three years. Googled how to get ex back and somehow ended up on there and it did actually help me as i'm over it now just two months later. But it is too feminine and depressing for my taste now that i've moved on from the ex, and i'm steering clear of relationships while looking to bang out as many hot women as I can, and I know this site will be a hellva lot more helpful with that then LS. So thanks for trolling it, I probably would have never found this site. I really need to do a lot of work on myself, i've already been friended by the first two women i've tried to get with, so ya thanks again everyone.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Take this time to talk to the GUYS here and get that masculinity back in shape. :cool:
 

bigjohnson

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That goal of banging out hot chicks might be a little shallow for the long term but in the short term you might find it healing I suppose. Just not my thing so much, if I want that I can't stand the inevitable goodbye part. Too softhearted.

Good luck to you though.

If nothing else there are a number of fun guys to chat with particularly in the mature men area.

EDIT:

Oh, age 21? Disregard and mazel-tov.
 

DonGorgon

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bigjohnson said:
That goal of banging out hot chicks might be a little shallow for the long term but in the short term you might find it healing I suppose. Just not my thing so much, if I want that I can't stand the inevitable goodbye part. Too softhearted.

Good luck to you though.

If nothing else there are a number of fun guys to chat with particularly in the mature men area.

EDIT:

Oh, age 21? Disregard and mazel-tov.
Yeh i want a good woman too but I cant find any... all i see is hos and slut many of whom ware disguises
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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romangod

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Technical1 said:
you just hit the jackpot, Baconator! Welcome to SoSuave!!!


Yes. Welcome! There's a bunch of great guys here of all ages that can save you a lot of misery and help you survive the Matrix. Cheers!
 

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TheBaconator said:
I was led there after getting the "need space" line and losing my ex of three years. Googled how to get ex back and somehow ended up on there and it did actually help me as i'm over it now just two months later. But it is too feminine and depressing for my taste now that i've moved on from the ex, and i'm steering clear of relationships while looking to bang out as many hot women as I can, and I know this site will be a hellva lot more helpful with that then LS. So thanks for trolling it, I probably would have never found this site. I really need to do a lot of work on myself, i've already been friended by the first two women i've tried to get with, so ya thanks again everyone.

Just joined from LS, too. Got tired of reading the Feminazi posts. Sounded too much like my cheating ex-wife.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Oh and change your user-name, Ima. New beginnings and everything.
 

KarmaSutra

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The Brotherhood.

Ima Whimp and TheBaconator,

Welcome and now join the ranks as Privates in the SoSuave ARMY.

Welcome to our Brotherhood.

First thing I suggest is to start a thread in the Mature Man section (if you're of appropriate age). Include a brief description of who you are and what brought you here and what issues you're having.

Best to stay away from the: "Why can't I get a girl?" questions because those are asymptomatic of the underlying issue.

Be honest and let us know what your core issues are. This way we can dissect and rationalize a thorough gameplan for you.

Know that there are some pretty spectacular people here.
 

Quiksilver

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Welcome to sosuave.

Please do more reading(www.sosuave.com) than posting, trust me it helps.

I turned my life around by reading the main part of this site, and then accidentally clicked the Discussion Forum link.

:up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KarmaSutra said:
Best to stay away from the: "Why can't I get a girl?" questions because those are asymptomatic of the underlying issue.
I agree with this---maybe you saved these dudes a lot of time.
 

HOMBRE

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Welcome Brother. Good luck banging all the ho's that are out there waiting for you.

Oh and Mazel Tov.
 

bigjohnson

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wjh said:
Welcome, ex-LoveShackers =)
Despite what some Nazis at LS think I don't believe it has to be an exclusive relationship in this case.
 

labrat

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I'm a Loveshacker too! And here to learn some stuff they don't teach in my school and move on from my ex who dumped me because I was such a nice guy.
Is anyone motivated in starting the 2008 edition of the bootcamp? Just starting the thing together, giving each other support and insight, rather than going on our own and abandoning after a few days for whatever stupid reason we come up with. Summer vacations are coming up pretty quickly, it would be nice to be a master DJ by then :cheer:
 
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This place will truly change you! I was the biggest AFC in the world! Now I am at least getting laid consistently. I still let the AFC out once I get the woman, and she ends up leaving me.

I am getting better though!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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