"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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New here and also have a Q

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dj90

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Hi all

Just wanted to say hi to you all as I joined a few week ago but never got the chance to log in. Great forum.

Have a question. I met a group of girls with my mates a few weeks ago. We # closed them and I chatted to one of them on whatsapp.

Got a date with her for drinks as she mentioned she wanted to go to this place for drinks and so I told her I will bring her there (originally it was to play sports on another date but that changed.)

Well when chatting to my mates, my mate knew about me asking her to play sports with me. She didn't tell me about her talking to my mate though.

Should I read into this at all on her interest level with me? We were quite flirty in our messages though. Maybe she is just playing the field or I am one of her options?

Any advice will be cool!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Always assume interest until she explicitly says "no" to you, or displays signs if disinterest. Until then, be cool, do fun stuff with her, escalate and see where it goes. When she starts acting retarded, flakes on you or disrespects you, then you drop her. No biggie.
 
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