"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

New here and also have a Q

D

dj90

New Member
Joined
Mar 31, 2014
Messages
2
Reaction score
0
Hi all

Just wanted to say hi to you all as I joined a few week ago but never got the chance to log in. Great forum.

Have a question. I met a group of girls with my mates a few weeks ago. We # closed them and I chatted to one of them on whatsapp.

Got a date with her for drinks as she mentioned she wanted to go to this place for drinks and so I told her I will bring her there (originally it was to play sports on another date but that changed.)

Well when chatting to my mates, my mate knew about me asking her to play sports with me. She didn't tell me about her talking to my mate though.

Should I read into this at all on her interest level with me? We were quite flirty in our messages though. Maybe she is just playing the field or I am one of her options?

Any advice will be cool!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

VladPatton

VladPatton

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2012
Messages
3,246
Reaction score
232
Location
NYC
Always assume interest until she explicitly says "no" to you, or displays signs if disinterest. Until then, be cool, do fun stuff with her, escalate and see where it goes. When she starts acting retarded, flakes on you or disrespects you, then you drop her. No biggie.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top