"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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New here and also have a Q

dj90

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Hi all

Just wanted to say hi to you all as I joined a few week ago but never got the chance to log in. Great forum.

Have a question. I met a group of girls with my mates a few weeks ago. We # closed them and I chatted to one of them on whatsapp.

Got a date with her for drinks as she mentioned she wanted to go to this place for drinks and so I told her I will bring her there (originally it was to play sports on another date but that changed.)

Well when chatting to my mates, my mate knew about me asking her to play sports with me. She didn't tell me about her talking to my mate though.

Should I read into this at all on her interest level with me? We were quite flirty in our messages though. Maybe she is just playing the field or I am one of her options?

Any advice will be cool!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VladPatton

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Always assume interest until she explicitly says "no" to you, or displays signs if disinterest. Until then, be cool, do fun stuff with her, escalate and see where it goes. When she starts acting retarded, flakes on you or disrespects you, then you drop her. No biggie.
 
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