“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hi I'm new here. This is my first post.

What do you people wear when it comes to jeans?

I used to wear Levis 511...But that was when I was REALLY skinny. I've gained a lot of weight. I'm wondering if the 513s would be better for me.

I have FAT thighs and a HUGE butt. It's disgusting how I'm proportioned. It's like my body is a woman's body. Anyone have experience with this?
 
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Hello,

I have been out and paid a wingman $500 to show me the ropes.

All he did was talk to a bunch of girls the whole nite, didn't get any numbers, had me buy him drinks,

and then he said "I hope you learned some valuable lessons" wtf.

I am an Asian guy, and I can't find any competent wingman that can actually do anything.
 
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Hello,

What is some advice for Asian American guys to get dates?

I have never been on one before.

I paid $500 for a wingman, but he could not get any numbers.

I have never met a competent wingman before.
 

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Go to the gym and build your upper body. Skip the leg workouts. Cut animal fat from your diet. Cardio. And improve your posture.

As far as your clothes, I'm not even gonna go there. Half the time I'm wearing the $9 white sneakers I mow my lawn in. Useless thing to worry about.
 

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nestlepurelife said:
Hello,

What is some advice for Asian American guys to get dates?

I have never been on one before.

I paid $500 for a wingman, but he could not get any numbers.

I have never met a competent wingman before.
At first, I thought you were trolling the topic creator. I suspected him of trolling also. Pessimism? Cynicism? But sadly, I believe you now.

A wingman is not to get numbers, is he also gonna call the girl and set up the date? The wingman's only job is to give you an excuse to intrude on groups and become the center of attention long enough to convince one of the girls to go somewhere else with you, where you can talk privately. It does absolutely nothing to get you dates.

Being Asian doesn't affect things that much. Yes, some girls might not be attracted to Asian men per say, but many are. If there are cultural differences, that is a bigger divide. For instance, if you speak too quietly, that could get you ignored. Speak with authority.

I hope I'm not getting trolled.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Vekhematu said:
Go to the gym and build your upper body. Skip the leg workouts. Cut animal fat from your diet. Cardio. And improve your posture.

As far as your clothes, I'm not even gonna go there. Half the time I'm wearing the $9 white sneakers I mow my lawn in. Useless thing to worry about.
Don't skip leg workouts lol
 

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Syrio said:
Don't skip leg workouts lol
Trust me, sounds like he has plenty of leg muscle. Working out a certain body part just tears more muscle fibers so they grow back bigger. Cardio to burn off calories. Benchpress and pullups to compensate for great lower body genetics.
 
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Vekhematu said:
At first, I thought you were trolling the topic creator. I suspected him of trolling also. Pessimism? Cynicism? But sadly, I believe you now.

A wingman is not to get numbers, is he also gonna call the girl and set up the date? The wingman's only job is to give you an excuse to intrude on groups and become the center of attention long enough to convince one of the girls to go somewhere else with you, where you can talk privately. It does absolutely nothing to get you dates.

Being Asian doesn't affect things that much. Yes, some girls might not be attracted to Asian men per say, but many are. If there are cultural differences, that is a bigger divide. For instance, if you speak too quietly, that could get you ignored. Speak with authority.

I hope I'm not getting trolled.

I have asked many women whether they would consider dating an Asian guy, and the response has always been no.
 
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