“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hi I'm new here. This is my first post.

What do you people wear when it comes to jeans?

I used to wear Levis 511...But that was when I was REALLY skinny. I've gained a lot of weight. I'm wondering if the 513s would be better for me.

I have FAT thighs and a HUGE butt. It's disgusting how I'm proportioned. It's like my body is a woman's body. Anyone have experience with this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hello,

I have been out and paid a wingman $500 to show me the ropes.

All he did was talk to a bunch of girls the whole nite, didn't get any numbers, had me buy him drinks,

and then he said "I hope you learned some valuable lessons" wtf.

I am an Asian guy, and I can't find any competent wingman that can actually do anything.
 
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Hello,

What is some advice for Asian American guys to get dates?

I have never been on one before.

I paid $500 for a wingman, but he could not get any numbers.

I have never met a competent wingman before.
 

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Go to the gym and build your upper body. Skip the leg workouts. Cut animal fat from your diet. Cardio. And improve your posture.

As far as your clothes, I'm not even gonna go there. Half the time I'm wearing the $9 white sneakers I mow my lawn in. Useless thing to worry about.
 

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nestlepurelife said:
Hello,

What is some advice for Asian American guys to get dates?

I have never been on one before.

I paid $500 for a wingman, but he could not get any numbers.

I have never met a competent wingman before.
At first, I thought you were trolling the topic creator. I suspected him of trolling also. Pessimism? Cynicism? But sadly, I believe you now.

A wingman is not to get numbers, is he also gonna call the girl and set up the date? The wingman's only job is to give you an excuse to intrude on groups and become the center of attention long enough to convince one of the girls to go somewhere else with you, where you can talk privately. It does absolutely nothing to get you dates.

Being Asian doesn't affect things that much. Yes, some girls might not be attracted to Asian men per say, but many are. If there are cultural differences, that is a bigger divide. For instance, if you speak too quietly, that could get you ignored. Speak with authority.

I hope I'm not getting trolled.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vekhematu said:
Go to the gym and build your upper body. Skip the leg workouts. Cut animal fat from your diet. Cardio. And improve your posture.

As far as your clothes, I'm not even gonna go there. Half the time I'm wearing the $9 white sneakers I mow my lawn in. Useless thing to worry about.
Don't skip leg workouts lol
 

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Syrio said:
Don't skip leg workouts lol
Trust me, sounds like he has plenty of leg muscle. Working out a certain body part just tears more muscle fibers so they grow back bigger. Cardio to burn off calories. Benchpress and pullups to compensate for great lower body genetics.
 
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Vekhematu said:
At first, I thought you were trolling the topic creator. I suspected him of trolling also. Pessimism? Cynicism? But sadly, I believe you now.

A wingman is not to get numbers, is he also gonna call the girl and set up the date? The wingman's only job is to give you an excuse to intrude on groups and become the center of attention long enough to convince one of the girls to go somewhere else with you, where you can talk privately. It does absolutely nothing to get you dates.

Being Asian doesn't affect things that much. Yes, some girls might not be attracted to Asian men per say, but many are. If there are cultural differences, that is a bigger divide. For instance, if you speak too quietly, that could get you ignored. Speak with authority.

I hope I'm not getting trolled.

I have asked many women whether they would consider dating an Asian guy, and the response has always been no.
 
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