"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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New hep college setting...how do I operate?

SageOFAllenAge

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Ive gotten myself enrolled in the most hep college in the city ...& there are chicks galore. Im probably being the most sociable guy around.

I wanted to make the most out of this situation ...since this is my final year of education & there are a lot of quality chicks around. I dont want a LTR. While i am being sociable Ive refrained from blatantly hitting on the chicks, because a reputation will likely stick in a situation like this ...

I’m looking for pointers as how I can go about this. :woo:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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diablo

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Originally posted by SageOFAllenAge
...since this is my final year of education & there are a lot of quality chicks around. Ive refrained from blatantly hitting on the chicks, because a reputation will likely stick in a situation like this ...
I don't think your college reputation is going to follow you around for the rest of your life. This is your last year, you should be enjoying it rather than making excuses why you shouldn't go pick up girls...
 

Caldus

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Just start meeting lots of them. Especially the first week. I know how you feel about the college reputation thing, but try your best to not worry about it too much. Because in reality, most people just won't care about that stuff.
 

note.the.smoke

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college rep is so much like fame

all media is good media

game ur name around wtever it takes n th girls will be like 'hey aint you that dude who....' ...lots of spontaneous mad **** will do that quite well.

gd luck
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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