"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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New hep college setting...how do I operate?

SageOFAllenAge

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Ive gotten myself enrolled in the most hep college in the city ...& there are chicks galore. Im probably being the most sociable guy around.

I wanted to make the most out of this situation ...since this is my final year of education & there are a lot of quality chicks around. I dont want a LTR. While i am being sociable Ive refrained from blatantly hitting on the chicks, because a reputation will likely stick in a situation like this ...

I’m looking for pointers as how I can go about this. :woo:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diablo

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Originally posted by SageOFAllenAge
...since this is my final year of education & there are a lot of quality chicks around. Ive refrained from blatantly hitting on the chicks, because a reputation will likely stick in a situation like this ...
I don't think your college reputation is going to follow you around for the rest of your life. This is your last year, you should be enjoying it rather than making excuses why you shouldn't go pick up girls...
 

Caldus

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Just start meeting lots of them. Especially the first week. I know how you feel about the college reputation thing, but try your best to not worry about it too much. Because in reality, most people just won't care about that stuff.
 

note.the.smoke

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college rep is so much like fame

all media is good media

game ur name around wtever it takes n th girls will be like 'hey aint you that dude who....' ...lots of spontaneous mad **** will do that quite well.

gd luck
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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