"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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New hep college setting...how do I operate?

SageOFAllenAge

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Ive gotten myself enrolled in the most hep college in the city ...& there are chicks galore. Im probably being the most sociable guy around.

I wanted to make the most out of this situation ...since this is my final year of education & there are a lot of quality chicks around. I dont want a LTR. While i am being sociable Ive refrained from blatantly hitting on the chicks, because a reputation will likely stick in a situation like this ...

I’m looking for pointers as how I can go about this. :woo:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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diablo

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Originally posted by SageOFAllenAge
...since this is my final year of education & there are a lot of quality chicks around. Ive refrained from blatantly hitting on the chicks, because a reputation will likely stick in a situation like this ...
I don't think your college reputation is going to follow you around for the rest of your life. This is your last year, you should be enjoying it rather than making excuses why you shouldn't go pick up girls...
 

Caldus

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Just start meeting lots of them. Especially the first week. I know how you feel about the college reputation thing, but try your best to not worry about it too much. Because in reality, most people just won't care about that stuff.
 

note.the.smoke

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college rep is so much like fame

all media is good media

game ur name around wtever it takes n th girls will be like 'hey aint you that dude who....' ...lots of spontaneous mad **** will do that quite well.

gd luck
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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