In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Although i dont have experience in the Divorce arena (I hope i never have to) Mauser gave good advice here. To touch up on his points,Mauser96 said:Someone mentioned something like this earlier, but I will recap.
1. Start being around less, a little late from work more often. Pay less attention to her.STOP fighting with her. Just care less.
2. Start dressing better.
3. Join a fitness center and start lifting weights, build some muscle. LOSE some fat!
4. Don't always answer your phone, or return calls right away.
Two can play the mind-fvck jealousy game.
NOTHING makes a woman more insecure than seeing her man all of a sudden start getting in great shape, taking more care with his appearance, less time at home, always at the gym, etc. Know why?
Because this is exactly what women do when they are prepping to drop the divorce bomb. They are getting themselves in market shape. So, when you do the same, they instinctively feel threatened. THIS may bring her ass around and scare her into treating you better. If it doesn't? You still win. You are now more marketable as a single man.
1. Start being around less, a little late from work more often. Pay less attention to her.STOP fighting with her. Just care less. -
This will create imagination in her mind as to what your doing and where you are. Women can be so dumb about this type of stuff because even though she may be feeling detached from you, all of a sudden she will begin to wonder what your doing, Where you are and with who. This can change her attitude and at best begin to even wonder if theres another Woman in the picture, EVEN if shes messing with another guy, she will begin shifting her thoughts from that guy to you and potentially another Woman.
2. Start dressing better. - This is a Given, Begin dressing better and again this magnifies her imagination i mention in point #1. Also start smelling better too. Buy a good solid cologne like Cool Water and that will create an impact.
3. Join a fitness center and start lifting weights, build some muscle. LOSE some fat! - This is 100% good idea. Get some fckin legit Testosterone if you can. You can even get if from a doctor. It will help lose fat, Build muscle, You'll have a more dominating attitude and better focus and feeling. Once your packing on muscle and leaning out, I bet ANYTHING she will try to get you to be all lovey with her because by then you will attract other women.
4. Don't always answer your phone, or return calls right away - Again, an extension to #1.... Make her wonder where and what your doing.