Can't write much more above what Colossus and Kailex already covered- spot on. But I do know that feeling in your chest, and it's rather difficult to go through that situation while learning from members here i.e. undoing years of being on auto-pilot. Do learn it, though; it's indispensable to your well-being and future success. Stand your ground, head up, and at least hold on to your guns.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
new guy, wife treats me like ****
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