"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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New guy checking in...few quick starter questions

newb

Don Juan
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some background info - Im 23years old and joined this forum(obviously) to seek any and all advice for approaching/meeting new girls and following through with whatever it is Im seeking. Good ideas for first meetings/dates after initial introduction/number exchange?

lol - well anything you guys want to mention

I do fine carrying on conversation but I have trouble initiating anything. When Im out I will usually have a few girls make the effort and come talk to me...but Im tired of not being sure how to do that myself.

Also...after meeting said girl how do I secure any future events. move on to what ever it is Im currently looking for from them.

I am going to cruse through the older threads to see if I can find anything and search the site - but I would appreciate anything you guys want to post.

Finally, are there any recommendations for literature I should read?? I have already read most of this

Thanks in advance
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Q-Pid

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Heya Newb. be sure to check out the Don Juan Bible (Link located at the top right hand corner of the forums). it should answer all your questions.

-Q
 
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