"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New guy checking in...few quick starter questions

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some background info - Im 23years old and joined this forum(obviously) to seek any and all advice for approaching/meeting new girls and following through with whatever it is Im seeking. Good ideas for first meetings/dates after initial introduction/number exchange?

lol - well anything you guys want to mention

I do fine carrying on conversation but I have trouble initiating anything. When Im out I will usually have a few girls make the effort and come talk to me...but Im tired of not being sure how to do that myself.

Also...after meeting said girl how do I secure any future events. move on to what ever it is Im currently looking for from them.

I am going to cruse through the older threads to see if I can find anything and search the site - but I would appreciate anything you guys want to post.

Finally, are there any recommendations for literature I should read?? I have already read most of this

Thanks in advance
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Heya Newb. be sure to check out the Don Juan Bible (Link located at the top right hand corner of the forums). it should answer all your questions.

-Q
 
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