"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New guy checking in...few quick starter questions

newb

Don Juan
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some background info - Im 23years old and joined this forum(obviously) to seek any and all advice for approaching/meeting new girls and following through with whatever it is Im seeking. Good ideas for first meetings/dates after initial introduction/number exchange?

lol - well anything you guys want to mention

I do fine carrying on conversation but I have trouble initiating anything. When Im out I will usually have a few girls make the effort and come talk to me...but Im tired of not being sure how to do that myself.

Also...after meeting said girl how do I secure any future events. move on to what ever it is Im currently looking for from them.

I am going to cruse through the older threads to see if I can find anything and search the site - but I would appreciate anything you guys want to post.

Finally, are there any recommendations for literature I should read?? I have already read most of this

Thanks in advance
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Q-Pid

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Heya Newb. be sure to check out the Don Juan Bible (Link located at the top right hand corner of the forums). it should answer all your questions.

-Q
 
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