"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New Girlfriend

amnbyrd

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Ok so to make a long story short this girl I sent a friend request to sent me a message and basically we hit it off and she gave me her number(I didn't even have to ask).
Well Saturday night we met up and pretty much just rode around trying to find stuff to do(I really didnt wanna do the typical movie date)-here where we are there seriously isnt that much to do though were trying to think of things to get into, btw Im in the military and Ive only been here for about a month and her dad is a colonel(which she neglected to mention at first lol) and shes been here for 4 yrs) So she basically showed me around, we got drinks at this cool place that has hawaiian style kinda drinks. Later on that night we ended up street racing in a bad part of town. lol
Anyways I didnt use any kino on her but the next day she got ahold of me and we got together again that night. At the end she asked if I wanted to meet her family-which I did, they were all watching a b-ball game and we all talked and though I was a lil nervous about meeting her high ranking dad things went alright, before I left I got a hug. Well the next night later we hung out again but this time her sis and her bf met up with us at this park where we walked around and stuff. Well I had a movie date with her today but Im tired as **** so I took a raincheck for Friday. Anyways I know I need to up the kino. Friday I plan on holding hands n kissing her and all that basic ****. Her interest seems high despite the lack of kino also. Any input would be appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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