"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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New Girlfriend

amnbyrd

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Ok so to make a long story short this girl I sent a friend request to sent me a message and basically we hit it off and she gave me her number(I didn't even have to ask).
Well Saturday night we met up and pretty much just rode around trying to find stuff to do(I really didnt wanna do the typical movie date)-here where we are there seriously isnt that much to do though were trying to think of things to get into, btw Im in the military and Ive only been here for about a month and her dad is a colonel(which she neglected to mention at first lol) and shes been here for 4 yrs) So she basically showed me around, we got drinks at this cool place that has hawaiian style kinda drinks. Later on that night we ended up street racing in a bad part of town. lol
Anyways I didnt use any kino on her but the next day she got ahold of me and we got together again that night. At the end she asked if I wanted to meet her family-which I did, they were all watching a b-ball game and we all talked and though I was a lil nervous about meeting her high ranking dad things went alright, before I left I got a hug. Well the next night later we hung out again but this time her sis and her bf met up with us at this park where we walked around and stuff. Well I had a movie date with her today but Im tired as **** so I took a raincheck for Friday. Anyways I know I need to up the kino. Friday I plan on holding hands n kissing her and all that basic ****. Her interest seems high despite the lack of kino also. Any input would be appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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